Here's a situation that might have enough substance for half a Seinfeld episode: I'm at Alterra on the Lake, where I ordered a soy latte and a whole wheat bagel (toasted with butter), both for here. They called me to pick up the drink, but there was never any sign of the bagel. About fifteen minutes after I ordered, they got slammed, so I can't go back to the counter to ask for it. So the bagel, I fear, is forever consigned to the bagelsphere. I'm not worried about the bagel but am curious about the etiquette--am I allowed to flag down the food runner as if she were a waitress and ask?